To be the honest, right friend is difficult thing. Especially, to the teenagers, friendship is very important and they want to keep them. So, most of teenagers are reluctant to tell their friends about their mistakes to keep their friendship. However, I believe that making friends know about their mistakes is much better than assuming the attitude of an onlooker even if I lose my friend.
They have to know about their own mistakes and try to change for the better it. If I don't tell them about their mistakes, they may not know about their mistakes forever. To change their mistakes, honest but painful advices are needed. After suffering pains, the greater profits can come to us.
Also, the harsh advices help them not to make the same mistakes next time. Letting them make the same mistakes is irresponsible behavior. Friend who makes their friend know about their mistakes is the real friend. For example, in my case, I didn't know my hidden characteristics, for instance - suddenly I felt angry to other person of my voice is so loud - made some mistakes. But my friends around me told me my mistakes and helped me change my own mistakes. Because of their bravery and harsh advices, I can improve my character and mature my inside.
Additionally, we can make strong friendship. It can be the great opportunity that makes a great friendship. During advising each other's mistakes, the strong friendship can be made. They can learn about understanding each other and capacity.
People make a lot of mistakes in their life, and they needed a harsh advice from other person. Teenagers are as same as adults. In our life, friends occupy a lot of parts but, the harsh advices from the friends are very important and helpful even if we can lose our friends. Therefore, it is better to advice our friends to change their mistakes.
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